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M：Guys invented the spark.So they could not call and treat you kind of badly and keep you guessing.And then convince you that anxiety and fear that just develops naturally.It's actually just a spark.And you guys all buy it ，you eat it up and you love it.You love it because you feed off that dream，you all love that drama.
W:I don't.
M:So you never wait until the last minute on a deadline or a phone bill?Because secretly you cannot love the drama of not knowing whether or not you're gonna make it.
W:Maybe.

M：男人发明了“火花”这一说，因为这样，他们就可以不打电话，可以对你很冷淡，让你捉摸不透，然后哄你相信，你对此自然而然产生的焦虑和害怕。这是一种火花，而你们女人照单全收，完全相信，还很喜欢。你们喜欢是因为你们偶像剧看多了，就喜欢这种情节。
W：我不这样。
M：那么你从来没有等到交稿或电话账单的最后期限？你要知道自己是否能成功，所以才喜欢这种情节。
W：也许是吧。

spark

n. 导火线，诱因；火花，火星；电火花；一丝，略微；生气，活力，才华；愤怒的情感，激烈的情绪；<非正式>军队中对无线电报务员（或电工）的昵称（Sparks）；生龙活虎的小伙子；（内燃机里火花塞的）放电
v. 引发，触发；产生火花（电火花）；点燃；增加趣味（或活力、风味等）；求婚

1.1 可数名词:火花、火星
He needed an electric sp bark to light the petrol.他需要一丝电火花来点燃汽油。
Sparks were flying out of the bonfire.
篝火中飞溅出许多火星。

The sparks fly: 激烈争论、唇枪舌剑地争论
When they get together in a meeting, the sparks really fly.
他们只要一起开会，就会开启唇枪舌战模式

1.2 可数名词:一丝、一点儿、些许
I felt a tiny spark of excitement when I met him today.今天遇见他的时候,我感到一丝兴奋。
His music lacked that vital spark of
imagination.他的音乐缺乏那关键的一点想像力。

1.3 单数型名词:导火线、诱因
That small incident was the spark that set off the street riots.
那件小事是街头暴乱的导火线。

2.1不及物动词:发出火花
The wires are sparking above me.我头顶上方的电线正迸着火花。

2.2 及物动词:引发、导致
A dropped cigarette sparked the fire.一支丢弃的香烟引发了这场火灾。
It really sparked my interest.它真正地激发了我的兴趣。